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Roadblocks on the Road to Destiny

On your journey in pursuit of your goals or purpose, you will encounter many road blocks. Those roadblocks can be lack of resources, people, thoughts, habits, and more. However, you have to be able to quickly identify what they are and determine a solution for the roadblock. If your thoughts or habits are the reason that you are not able to move forward, ask yourself what changes do you need to make in your thought pattern or habits. For example, if you have a habit of forgetting important things, the solution would be to utilize your calendar in your phone or purchase a planner so that can remember important dates or appointments. Or if you have trust issues, re-evaluate every situation or get a second opinion before making a decision.


If you determine that a lack of resources is your roadblock. You must do extensive research to identify various resources available for whatever endeavor you are pursuing. Make Google your best friend. It is the best tool in the world to identify information, resources, and "How To's" There are many different avenues to obtain the resources that you need no matter the endeavor, but it will require a lot of effort on your part to obtain them. You may have to do something that you have never done before such as write an essay in order to obtain a scholarship for school. You may have to learn a new skill in order to work in a field that is more profitable for you to earn income. You may have to work an additional job and save the money. Just remember that if you have the will, there is a way to obtain the resources that you need to accomplish your goals


If you determine that people are your roadblock, then you must quickly make the adjustments in relationships. Sometimes friends and family can be a hindrance to your destiny. We must not allow anyone to hinder your goals, therefore sometimes that may require you to seek solitude until you accomplish your goals. This can be a difficult thing to do, because our nature is to desire the presence of others. However, it can be a very smart and necessary decision that you may have to make if others are hindering you. That does not mean that you can get rid of your children of course, you may have to establish some alone time daily or weekly to work on your goals. In addition, the universe has a way of sending people your way that appear to want to help you but, they have different agendas. They too can become a distraction because if their agenda is different than yours, it will certainly create conflict and there is no room for unnecessary conflict on your journey.


Finally there will be people that can help you, but will not because they do not want you to succeed. They are secretly hoping that you fail. However if you happen to succeed, they will be the first to try to connect to your success. You must know that your success is not contingent upon any one person. Your success will be determined by your ability to role up your sleeves and continue to move ahead despite who chooses to help you or not. Pay attention to those surrounding you and others that may suddenly come your way, remain focused and do not allow anyone to distract you. Make a decision that when you encounter a roadblock, you will either remove it or go around it. You will WIN if you do not give up!

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